In this themed post for April, I have chosen ten favourite books strong on feminist themes. In these books, the women yearn for independence, to break away from the conventional roles of marriage and motherhood, to focus on creative pursuits, to rise from the depths of obscurity, to challenge, question or fight against societal constraints placed on them, and to live on their own terms.
So without further ado, here are the ten books. Barring one, you can read the detailed reviews on the rest by clicking on the title links…
BASIC BLACK WITH PEARLS by Helen Weinzweig
Here is the intriguing blurb from NYRB Classics – “Shirley and Coenraad’s affair has been going on for decades, but her longing for him is as desperate as ever. She is a Toronto housewife; he works for an international organization known only as the Agency. Their rendezvous take place in Tangier, in Hong Kong, in Rome and are arranged by an intricate code based on notes slipped into issues of National Geographic. But something has happened, the code has been discovered, and Coenraad sends Shirley to Toronto, the last place she wants to go.”
Told from Shirley’s point of view, it quickly becomes clear that things are not what they seem, and we are left with a narrative that is surreal and disorienting, but all in a good way. Is this then a straightforward espionage tale or something deeper and complex? Weinzweig’s idea for this multi-layered novel was inspired by the Canadian artist Michael Snow’s Walking Woman sculpture series – the concept of a one-dimensional woman moving nowhere.
MY DEATH by Lisa Tuttle
Lisa Tuttle’s My Death is a wonderfully uncanny, subversive tale of artists and creativity, identity, and the erasure of women in the world of art.
A writer by profession, we are told how our unnamed narrator has lost her mojo for conjuring up stories, especially since her beloved husband, Allan’s death. Utterly adrift but realising the need for change, she sets up a meeting with her agent Selwyn in Edinburgh. On the appointed day, our narrator visits the National Gallery where a painting stops her in her tracks. Titled “Circe” and painted by the artist W.E. Logan in 1928, we learn that Logan’s muse for this painting was the young art student Helen Ralston who, flattered by Logan’s interest in her, leaves America to study art in Glasgow. Our narrator is suddenly inspired to write a biography on Helen Ralston about whom not much is known or written, and is pleasantly surprised to learn that Ralston is still alive albeit quite old.
However, when the meeting between the creator and her subject takes place, things take a peculiar, unsettling turn, when uncannily the lives of Helen Ralston and our narrator begin to intertwine…
MARY OLIVIER: A LIFE by May Sinclair
Published in 1919, but set in the late 19th century, May Sinclair’s Mary Olivier: A Life is a delicate and restrained portrayal of a woman’s struggle for selfhood and fulfillment, an exploration of her inner consciousness, while also brilliantly depicting her complicated relationship with her mother, her longing for intellectual pursuits, and the burden of being bogged down by family tragedy and societal expectations.
Autobiographical in tone, the book is divided into five sections – Infancy, Childhood, Adolescence, Maturity, and Middle Age – charting Mary’s life right from her childhood to the years when she is approaching fifty and in many aspects mirrors much of Sinclair’s own life. The Oliviers are a dysfunctional family, and we learn how Mamma, a strict Catholic, is openly critical of Mary, of her lack of religious fervor, and always contemptuous of Mary’s bookish leanings. The father is a tyrannical figure, particularly in the way he treats his sons, while Mary’s brothers are also a disturbed lot struggling for independence and to break away from the shackles of family ties.
By turns, heartbreaking, poignant, intelligent, introspective, and wise, Mary Olivier brilliantly touches upon myriad themes such as complex families, mothers and daughters, solitude and independence, fear and madness, the tussle between religion and philosophy, the tension between duty and personal fulfillment, the restricted roles for women in Victorian and Edwardian England, and the mysterious passage of time.
HER SIDE OF THE STORY by Alba de Céspedes (Translated from Italian by Jill Foulston)
After the resounding success of Forbidden Notebook, Her Side of the Story is another excellent novel by Céspedes – ambitious, intense, richly layered but also longer at 500 pages. Packed with astute observations, this is an absorbing internal drama of a deeply conflicted woman complete with her memories, reflections, turmoil, hopes, and frustrations. It’s a story that records her path to self-awareness as it satisfyingly hurtles towards a Ginzburg-reminiscent ending.
For Alessandra, our protagonist, the crux of her story is her unhappy marriage to Francesco Minelli, but to get to that core she feels it necessary to give the reader a flavour of her childhood, her upbringing, and the neighbourhood she grew up in. We learn of Alessandra’s adoration of her mother Eleanora trapped in a tumultuous marriage to a man they both despise, and which leaves scars on both women. When she grows up into a young woman herself, Alessandra marries Francesco, but her fate disturbingly begins to blend with that of her mother, although it must be said that while Eleanora falls out of love with her husband, Alessandra remains passionately and perhaps frustratingly devoted to Francesco. Set against a background of days leading up to the Second World War, the war itself, the rise of resistance, the fall of Mussolini, and the signing of the armistice, Her Side of the Story explores an array of themes centred on the stifling stronghold of patriarchy, the net it casts over the relationships between men and women ensnaring them in its fold, the concept of romantic love, feminism, alienation and also increasing resistance.
THE WALL by Marlen Haushofer (Translated from German by Shaun Whiteside)
This is a powerful book about survival, self-renewal, and the capacity to love. While holidaying in an Alpine hunting lodge, our unnamed narrator wakes up one day to an unimaginable catastrophe. She is possibly the last living person although she is yet to grasp the significance of this.
Against such a terrifying backdrop, the bulk of the book is all about how the narrator fights for survival and ekes out a living in the forest. The deep bond that she forms with her coterie of animals is very sensitively portrayed and is one of the highlights of the book. And there are some wonderful passages on existentialism and the meaning of life, love and caring, and the evolution of the physical and metaphysical selves. Ultimately, the narrator’s strength of will to forge ahead is what makes the book so beautiful.
COLD NIGHTS OF CHILDHOOD by Tezer Özlü (Translated from Turkish by Maureen Freely)
Cold Nights of Childhood, then, is an unflinching portrayal of a woman’s quest for independence, freedom, sex and love, as well as her struggles with mental illness told in a writing style that is cinematic and impressionistic without conforming to the rigid structures of conventional storytelling.
At barely 70 pages and set between 1950 and 1970, the novella is divided into four chapters and begins with a flavour of our narrator’s childhood and school years in the Turkish town of Fatih. Later, we move on to the time our narrator spends in Istanbul and Ankara, and abroad in Europe’s great capital cities (Berlin and Paris). We learn of her string of lovers, her unsuccessful marriages, and above all her incarceration in mental asylums. This predominantly forms the essence of the book, and yet the narrative is not as linear as it seems. Moody, evocative, teeming with rich visuals and a palpable Jean Rhys vibe, Cold Nights of Childhood is a beautifully penned novella that I’m glad to have discovered.
MRS CALIBAN by Rachel Ingalls
Mrs Caliban is a tale of the disintegration of a marriage, love and sexual freedom, grief and loss, friendship and betrayal, and the re-invention of a woman having hit rock bottom. Our protagonist is Dorothy, a housewife residing in the suburbs of California stuck in a stagnant, loveless marriage. With the unexpected death of their son, Scotty, during a routine operation as well as a miscarriage thereafter, Dorothy is tormented by grief and despair. Her relationship with Fred has reached a breaking point. Resentment brews between the two as they silently blame each other for these twin tragedies. The sense of hopelessness has reached a stage where both are too tired to even divorce. And so they stumble along…staring into an uncertain future.
When one day, Larry, the frogman, lands in Dorothy’s kitchen, her life alters unexpectedly and in ways she has not imagined. The reader immediately senses the perceptible shift in Dorothy’s circumstances; a chance for excitement, love, and adventure…
What makes Mrs Caliban unique is not just its unusual premise but also how rich the novel is in terms of themes explored. Within the broader strange outline of its plot, the novel has an interior logic all its own. Mrs Caliban is a testament to Ingalls’ excellent storytelling ability in the way she blends the fantastical with the mundane to greater effect, and on the strength of her assured writing, the reader is willing to be led along in whichever direction she takes us.
THE DAYS OF ABANDONMENT by Elena Ferrante (Translated from Italian by Ann Goldstein)
When Olga’s husband Mario suddenly decides to opt out of their marriage, her life turns upside down, and so begins her downward spiral into depression and neglect.
What stands out in The Days of Abandonment is Olga’s voice – she is brutally frank in conveying her thoughts and feelings, minces no words, and is almost always angry, sometimes uncomfortably so. At its core, the novel touches upon the themes of how absurd conventional definitions of womanhood can be, while also highlighting the trials of motherhood.
LOLLY WILLOWES by Sylvia Townsend Warner
Lolly Willowes is a wonderful tale of a single woman looking to lead an independent life by breaking away from the controlling clutches of her family. Till her late twenties, Lolly is shown to lead a pretty sheltered life in the country where her father has a brewing business and an estate called Lady Place. But once she is in her mid-forties, Lolly feels trapped and stultified and longs for a change. During one of her shopping trips, she chances upon a flower shop and learns of a village in the Chilterns called the Great Mop. Soon she begins poring over books and maps on the place. It’s a region that tickles her fancy and on a whim, she decides to establish herself there and live independently.
The first half of Lolly Willowes proceeds conventionally as Lolly sinks into domestic routines both at Lady Place and in London, her role in both these houses being taken for granted. It’s in the second half that the novel slips into a bit of whimsy and magic as ‘witches’ come into play, but it’s all quite charming, and more importantly, Sylvia Townsend Warner pulls it off. Not only does Lolly refreshingly choose to defy conventional societal roles, but the novel is also a statement that even in the mid or late forties, it is never too late for a woman to entirely change her course of life if she really wants to.
THE AWAKENING by Kate Chopin
First published in 1899, The Awakening is a remarkable book and is widely seen as a landmark of early feminism. Set in Louisiana, Edna Pontellier is married to a conservative New Orleans businessman. Feeling increasingly stifled by the conventional role of a housewife, the dull existence of a society woman, and the demands of motherhood, Edna yearns for freedom. Until one day she meets Robert Lebrun and is floored by his devotion towards her. Their passionate, furtive encounters unleash in her the desire to chart a new life for herself and pursue her passion for art.
It’s a beautifully penned novel that encapsulates Edna’s inner thoughts as she struggles to find a balance between her duties as a wife and mother, and her newfound path of independence. Gender roles and societal constraints as well as a woman’s need for solitude and finding time for herself are some of the central themes explored in this unforgettable book.
And that’s it! I plan to write more such themed pieces in the future so watch this space.